Life in Black & White

Ever stress about a particular event or person and then you look back and wonder why you spent so much time loosing sleep over something so minute? It is amazing how much time flies and what happens in the speed of time. Things either begin to make sense or not and puzzles you thought you could not put together begin to form in one way or another.

This happens to me in so many aspects of my life and be it a day or a month or a year after, I look back and I think to myself, why the heck was I going crazy over that?


Life is really fragile and it changes in the blink of an eye, so these days, I try to live every second of it fully with no regrets. Yes, it is true I most times want things my way and I constantly set deadlines for myself and projects I am involved in. However, the truth is those deadlines are sometimes not going to be met and that is okay. I am slowly coming to terms that “man proposes, but God disposes.” The world does not always have to be defined in black and white and overthinking does kill your happiness.


So when you are down or not meeting deadlines, just remember that it is never that serious and it shall pass. Take some time out to love yourself, to reflect on your achievements, to see how far you have come, to pamper yourself and once you do all of that, trust me you will be filled with so much more energy that can be fuelled into achieving even better goals and crossing that barrier you have been worried about.


In the past year, I have learnt that worrying hardly solves anything and that all is well that ends well. When I look back at all the things I once worried about, all I do is laugh about it because in most cases, although you may not have gone where you intended to go, you most times end up where you intended to be or in a better place.


Outfit Details

Shein Official top

Levis Jeans (OLD)

Oscar de la renta shoes

Ted Baker bag

6 Comments Add yours

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  2. quinncove says:

    This top is absolutely stunning, girl! LOVE.


  3. Oyinlolaao says:

    Totally agree with you girl, over worrying is such a joy killer


  4. dfstylehub says:

    Love your photos! What camera do you use? x


    1. wovenblends says:

      Thanks dear.

      I use a canon 6d and a 50mm 1.4 lens.

      Liked by 1 person

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